I think that learning how to bring pleasure to someone in such an intimate setting is very much an art and requires an artistic frame of mind. For me a səxual experience is work and it is mostly designed and planned well to ensure real satisfaction. Every woman or man is different in so many exciting ways. Learning to explore a woman or man to find out what he/she likes, what drives him/her wild must often be done with measured gentleness. Most səxual experiences can also be very emotional and very spiritual.
I find that coaxing a woman/man to share her/his emotions and soul requires a gentleness and is an art. Just as artist are required to freestyle their talent so is every man and woman to freestyle with $3x.
Just as art requires patience to comprehend so does $3x, every artist have different artistic skills, hardly you see two same looking art by different artists from different location. To be able to really enjoy $3x, we need to understand that it’s art, which requires carefulness and freestyle but with a bit of intimacy and soul search.
This is my view tho, I stand to be corrected